Housekeeping, the Old fashioned way

Old fashioned housekeeping

Today, I am taking out a leaf of an old-fashioned book that I have, titled ‘A Book for Every Woman’ from 1926! It has numerous ideas and tips for home-making that I feel like sharing with you all! In my blog, I have revised some paragraphs from the book’s chapter titled ‘Do you make work for yourself?’ I hope you enjoy reading the blog!

If you feel that you are overworked, look around your house and see how you can make things easier for yourself. Easier – without sacrificing the essentials of a wholesome living, namely, cleanliness and nutritious food.

Too much clutter

Maybe you do a lot of unnecessary work every day as your house is over-furnished. Is the mantel of your house loaded with ornaments? Is the top of the bureau filled with fripperies? Are the walls overloaded with pictures? Putting away some of these things can help! Now, notice how much more restful and neat your home looks and how much work this saves.

One morning, I suddenly woke up to the fact that I was doing a lot of unnecessary work. I can never forget the length of time it used to take me to dust and clean my bedroom. I always used to go to my writing desk first of all. It looked like a fancy table at some fair, I would rub my eyes in astonishment and would feel pity about the things that my little duster always passed over, but they were never used.

Order restored!

My room offered a great deal of elegance and cleanliness without those things. What mattered for me was that the things I want or use regularly are right in front of my eyes.  They could not show up when they were closely elbowed by the things I did not care about. I sorted out my stuff and it helped me in creating an atmosphere of accessibility and cleanliness in my room that I never had. I was proud of myself when I calculated the lesser time it would take me to set it to rights in the mornings.

Kitchen and Dining de-clutter

Then I diverted my attention to the sitting-room and the dining room and even the kitchen came in for its share of this weeding out process. I found out that one cupboard was full of utensils, both household and kitchen, that we never used. They were either too big or too small, which made them unserviceable. For example, there was an ice-chest that was too big for our family and then a preserving kettle that was not satisfactory in the functioning and many other utensils. The things were all good in themselves so I had kept them. I decided to sell the contents of this cupboard. This greatly helped me in managing the mess!

In short, this cleaning process ensured that I pay attention to everything, regardless of its size. The things I was saving with a view of being possible for use someday, weren’t used till date. I asked myself what will be useful in the near future. It turned out that no matter if you will be using these utensils in the future or not, this cleaning process will help you in managing your mess and time.

So you see, the woman of the past were decluttering their homes long before we were!

Simplify your home in the New Year

simplify your home

As the new year approaches, I have been pondering some of the changes that we as a family have gone through in 2019 and what my personal plans and goals will be for 2020. One of those goals will be to create a new home in the new year. A much more organized, paired down home. A simple home.

My minimalist journey began 9yrs ago however life changes and things accumulate, then before you know it your home is not so simple anymore. Maybe you feel the same way? If so, it’s time to hit the reset button and simplify your home in the New Year.

Re-evaluate where you are at and where you want to be

Wherever you are at in your simplifying journey, whether contemplating living more simply or an experienced declutterer?! It is always good to re-evaluate where you are at and where you want to be. For me, as a stay at home mum, home is the center of my world. It’s the hub for most other things in my life, where I homeschool, work on my buisness, eat my meals and of course sleep!

I know that when my home is in order I am less stressed, more energized, more productive.

Simplifying the home is life-changing

Whether you work outside of the home or work from home, home will affect how you function on a day to day basis. That is why it is life-changing when we simplify, organize and prioritize our home and schedule. It will have a ripple effect in whatever else we are doing. I know that when my home is in order I am less stressed, more energized, more productive. A better wife and mother! Just happier overall.

So if you have been feeling the desire to simplify the home, the New Year is the perfect time to start or to re-set. Start off small, one drawer, one bag, one shelf. Let’s get started!

3 ways to help you simplify your home in the New Year

  • 1.Choose a word, verse or phrase to help keep you motivated

It’s a good idea to have a simple word, verse or phrase to remind you of your goals in regards to simplifying. This could be a family motto or a personal one. Something that reflects what you would like your home to feel like such as ‘clean & minimal’ or ‘serene’. Or “I want my home to be ordered with everything having a place.” A relative of mine wanted her home to be “guest ready”. As per my blog, I’ve chosen the words calm and orderly for the year and I am aiming for more organized and less effort maintaining.

What is it that you wish your home would be but isn’t due to clutter?

What is it that you wish your home would be but isn’t due to clutter? Adding a picture of how you would like it to look is also helpful if you are more visual. The point is not to have a show home but a home that serves you and your family. It helps when you get stuck on an item to ask “does this item fit with my ideal home”? You can then refer back to your picutre or motto.

  • 2. Decide where to start and focus only on that first

Deciding to get your whole house in order can be overwhelming, even if you have been decluttering for some time. The best way is to chose one spot to focus on only and stick with that until it’s done. As above, just start off with one drawer, one bag or one shelf. If you are feeling braver or have less stuff to purge then you could start off with a room. The Kon mari method works on categories, books, clothing etc. Do what appeals to you.

Sell, donate, trash

 Once that is done you will likely have momentum to go to the next spot. The 3 box method seems to work well. Sell, donate, trash or something similar. Putting items in these marked boxes as you go means you will clearly know where everything is going. Some people find selling stuff and making some extra money is a great motivator and others love to give away items. Do what works best for you and don’t keep that stuff hanging around! Remember your goal.

  • 3. Celebrate your new home as you go

You won’t have a new home overnight but you can celebrate and enjoy your progress as you go along. So if you have simplified your living or dining room and your goal has been to entertain more this year, then start inviting people over now. Don’t wait until your whole house is done. If you have worked with your children to downsize the toys then reward them and yourself with a fun outing or family activity. This will reinforce the value of living with less stuff.

Once you start you will gain momentum and your New home will begin to shine through from all that clutter.  

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Need more help to get started? Check out this great post from ‘Apartment Therapy’

https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/11-things-you-should-declutter-and-donate-after-christmas-238807

What is a minimalist toy collection?

What is a minimalist toy collection?

What is a minimalist toy collection and what are the benefits is owning less toys? As my minimalist journey began just prior to the birth of our first daughter, I began to wonder how many toys a child really needs to thrive and be happy.

Between wanting to give our child the very best and yet wanting to maintain a clutter free home, I began to consider my options when choosing and allowing toys for our baby. You may be at various stages as a parent and asking the same question.

There are no rules when it comes to creating a minimalist toy box. It is simply a carefully selected group of toys. I would describe it as non-excessive and non junky! Toys with a purpose. The Montessori method really appealed to me as I am a big fan of natural materials and simple handcrafted toys, rather than a bunch of noisy battery-operated, name-brand toys.

Toddler books

Children don’t need a lot of stuff to be content, less toys is better

Children naturally tend to gravitate toward exploring and playing with objects in their surroundings anyway. So with that in mind I began to take note of what is truly needed for natural development. I found that there were many benefits to a carefully curated toy selection that I have continued to implement in the following years.

Some of the benefits to keeping the simple toy box, were a calmer more engaged play time. (Studies have shown that when children have less choice and distraction they focus and play better.) More interest in books and creative play as well as a tidier home!

As children grow up it does get a little harder to keep toys in check. Mainly due to the influences around them. I have found that limiting and monitoring screen time goes a long way. Basically advertising is the biggest threat when it comes to keeping toys to a minimum.

Recently I went back to our old method of storing and swapping. Basically we have a box or a couple of bags of toys that we swap around every couple of months. It means easy clean up and the kids feel like they are getting a new bunch of toys each time.

Some of the ways I keep toys to a minimum

  1. Learn to love your local library

A minimalist’s best friend when it comes to books! (We go weekly). Only keep books which are age appropriate, are re-read often or have sentimental value. (Truly special books only).

2. Set limits

Make a limit to how many specific toys can be kept per child. We have a rule of 5 stuffed toys/dolls to be kept in the bedroom at a time. If they love collections then you may want to set a limit on that also. Once they reach the limit or maximum for that collection then they need to let go of the least favourite ones. If this is too hard then you could store some of the collection away and rotate.

3. Create set categories for toys

If your kids have a number of small toy selections or lego blocks etc, limit the number of categories that they can keep. eg: five storage tubs or containers for lego, wooden blocks, train set, dolls, cars. Take out toys that don’t fit in these storage categories. This helps with those random toys that end up found lying around because they don’t have a set place to go.

4. Opt for pre-loved eco-friendly toys

Children outgrow toys pretty quickly so we rarely buy new toys for the kids when they are younger. There is a lot of great pre-loved toy options out there. We shop at charity stores, facebook market-place or ebay. I avoid cheap plastic toys at all cost and this helps in a number of ways. Firstly they don’t break quickly and need to be discarded. Wooden or handmade toys that are made to last means longevity and less waste. When our children outgrow them we can pass them on to others. As a minimalist I have found that things stay tidier with well made toys rather than lots of small plastic pieces which end up scattered all over the house. Not to mention that plastic toys are no the healthiest choice for children to play with.

5. Designated areas for different activities

(Similar to above). Have designated areas for certain activities such as arts and craft, games,perhaps a book corner or kitchen play area. Only toys or materials relevant can be kept in those areas. This way you can quickly see what is getting out of hand or when you are accumulating too many things in one area.

We have a homeschool cupboard which has drawers for set subjects and then shelves to keep board-games/puzzles or science kits. Toy baskets for toys go in the bedroom, books on a book shelf, lego in the lego tub and stuffed toys can sit on the bed or in a set basket. Once a container, shelf or cupboard is full, it’s time to purge.

Our 1 year old’s toy collection

A minimalist toy collection is good for kids

Setting limits and having fewer kids toys available may feel mean and like deprivation! Let me assure you that it has been a huge blessing for our family especially our daughter. There is no more nagging from me, or dread on my daughter’s part when it comes to tidying up her room or space. In fact she enjoys seeing how fast she can clean her room!

There are set places for everything and everything fits! Its quick and easy. There is actually time to play games and use what is readily available.

A really important lesson is for children to learn that they don’t need so much stuff. Having less options makes it easier for children to play and create. It’s not overwhelming and they enjoy what they have.

My conclusion has been that limits for children even in the area of toys and activities is a good thing. Give it a try and let me know how you go. 🙂

Still not convinced? Check out this post from Becoming Minimalist: